
An Amazing Gar Hug On My 70th Birthday
One of Gar’s many soulful gifts and talents was his ability to give the most sincere, penetrating and heartfelt hugs. He was renowned for them

Circle of Love – Gar’s Arrival Into The World
Over the last couple of weeks, I’ve been decorating the guest bedroom. We don’t have any visitors coming for a while, so it’s been possible

The First Anniversary of Gar’s Death
So many demanding things happened to us, as a family, in the first year after Gar took his life, in July 2021. Having moved to

No one Here is Me
The shock of Gar’s death, immediately hit family and friends, in both clearly visible and, more concerningly, invisible ways. Grief is a shockwave, with a

Empty Headed Days
There are some days, when you feel as if all of the wires in your head have been unplugged and reconnected back, in a completely

Thirty-Sixty-Ninety
I believe that, for all of us, there are some obvious and profound constellation alignments in our lives, that for some reason, we don’t spot